What Will Your Normal Be Moving Forward?
We often discuss the “old normal” versus the “new normal,” but what will your normal be moving forward? Life is full of chapters, and as one ends, we have the opportunity to choose how the next begins.
American culture has long celebrated hard work and busyness, leading many to lose sight of what’s truly essential—connections with people. A recent pause in our usual routines has given us a moment to reflect: Do you want to return to your “old normal”? Perhaps now is the time for a change.
Zero-Based Budgeting at Work
Consider the practice of “zero-based budgeting,” where you evaluate every aspect of your operations:
If this product or project didn’t exist, would you start it today?
Is it essential to the organization, or merely a distraction?
Leaders must have the courage to make tough decisions, which might affect jobs and morale, but could also be crucial for the company’s future.
Zero-Based Budgeting at Home
Apply this concept personally. Reflect on your life pre-change. List all your activities, including those of your children. Then ask:
Do the kids need all these activities?
Are these enriching their lives or adding stress?
Often, parents push children into activities they themselves desired, not what the child might actually enjoy. Ask your children what sport or instrument they truly love. Simplify commitments for a more focused and less hectic family life.
Your New Normal
Consider what aspects of your life you want to change:
- If working from home suits you, negotiate that flexibility with your employer. Many companies are now open to such arrangements to manage office capacity.
- Encourage your children to pick one sport or activity they are passionate about, rather than spreading themselves thin across multiple commitments.
- Align your volunteer work with your deepest values, focusing on causes that truly matter to you.
- Minimize engagements that don’t bring you joy or fulfillment.
- Make time for family dinners or simple outings like a summer picnic, which can rejuvenate everyone.
What will your new normal look like? You have choices. I hope this reflection helps you choose a path that brings more satisfaction and less stress. Remember, it’s about quality over quantity in how we spend our time and energy.